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09.14.1998  
Diaspora of Abraham
 

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I found the September issue of the Utne Reader to be one of the more interesting ones. The cover is a discussion about "Designer God" where people tend to basically make up their own religion based on various beliefs... a combination of the religion they grew up with, with a little bit of Hinduist reincarnation views, a smattering of the latest New Age idea, and a few touches by angels and you've got your own religion.

In one article, they began to ask various religious leaders if this was a good idea. It seemed to me that if the leader had money to loose by people inventing their own religion, then they tended to look down on the idea. If, they had something to gain, then they tended to agree. However, one that I would have thought to have something to loose by the prospect came up with the most compelling argument for it...

God said to Abraham, "Leave your country, your family, your father's house, and walk inward to the land I will show you." This is what true spirituality demands: to leave everything we know; to relinquish everything we are; to wander without a goal, path, teacher, or teaching, simply trusting that when we get "there," we will know. Buddha did that. So did Lao Tzu, Jesus, and Mohammed. They all left home.

But we do just the opposite. Worse! We take refuge in those who taught No Refuge. We imitate those who demanded No Imitation. We study each other's floor plans, and borrow each other's furniture, when what we really need is to leave home.

Does it matter that Jews sit zazen or Buddhists keep Shabbat? No. What matters is that for just one moment we heed the call "lech lecha, walk inward" and leave home for the unknown.

Rabbi Rami M. Shapiro
Author and director, Rasheit Institute for Jewish Spirituality
Miami, Florida

In discussing this very subject with another friend of mine, I made the following comment …

I feel that "churches" and "religions" are useful in getting a "child" from base level animal drives to higher social forms and eventually to the door of spirituality. But I also feel that once religion has taken the human creature to this point and shown it how to grow spiritually, it should cut the leash.

This is actually the concept in Zen and Hinduism, and I admire them for that. They realize that while there is one path to God (Tao), that path is different from one individual to the next. Their job is something akin to school. A school can not possibly hope to teach a child everything that they will need to know in their life. All school can do is teach the child how to learn what it needs to learn, and graduate it.

Religions should teach a child how to develop its one spiritual path, and how to modify that path as it grows. Just what Joseph Smith did, we all need to do. That is, once God reveals more to you, like that he has a physical body, then you rewrite your scriptures to match and get rid (or clarify) the phrase, "God is Spirit."

Most religions are not mature enough … er, confident enough ... er, well, each religion feels that if they graduate their students, the students will forget to pay their tithes to their alma mater, and they will not be able to pay the Pope for his nice house, etc. Yes, you can see that things like this come down to money. And so "churches" go on, using guilt to get money out of people, and in the process stop them on their journey to God.

A comment to this from Brett

I was able to pick up a copy of the Utne Reader issue to which you refer, and I reread several of the articles. I too liked Rabbi Shapiro’s comments about “…leaving home,” and I agree with your analysis—very well stated.

The problem comes in determining when it’s time to cut the cord. Depending on religious background, age, personal interest, cognitive ability, spiritual level, etc., one’s “graduation” readiness might vary greatly. For example, you might be ready to search out your own path at age 14, while I might not be ready until I’m in my mid-twenties.

If a church leader devotes enough time to getting to know the members of his or her congregation on a personal level, the leader might be able to determine when a person is ready to explore for themselves. However, I’m not sure I want anyone evaluating (judging) me in that way. I don’t want them telling me I’m not ready if I feel I am, nor would I want them to boot me out if I didn’t want to go.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that it’s a very personal decision. One that must be made on one’s own terms. I’m not sure that any organized religion is equipped to deal with this issue adequately and still remain “organized.”

What do you think?

Comment posted on Saturday, 6 July 2002
A comment to this from Hal

I think there are independent thinkers and then there are those who must only follow. Maybe god picked out the independent thinkers to keep things going, like Abraham, Noah and Moses. They followed God but didn’t follow the masses. They ended up leading the masses. I think independent thinkers may grow up in a church and learn everything and even act just like everyone else, but at some point they start thinking on their own and they just don’t feel they fit in anymore and they move on. That’s what happened to me. My father was a minister but after a while the sermons just didn’t fit anymore. I found Buddhism and thought, “Wow, that’s exactly the way I think.”

Comment posted on Monday, 14 July 2003
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